I am starting a series called IDENTITY (Birth Determines Identity). With everything happening in the world today, and I mean its not good. I don’t want to trivialize the horror of events that has happened over the last few months. The behavior of some of the people are just bad and down right horrific.

We put a lot of pressure and credance on behavior. I mean, we are pretty much judged by our behavior. So some of us do are best to be on our best behavior. But realistically being on good behavior doesn’t change us at our core. Really behavior is a mask that we wear to get good credit points from others that matter and others that really don’t. We can fake good behavior and we can justify bad behavior. But the bottom line is behavior good or bad is really not who we are.

I can suggest that because you really don’t know who you are is the reason for good or bad behavior. That’s why it is so important to know your identity (who you are). Because when you know who you are, then you will begin to behave from that paradigm.

When you know who you are at the core, then as that grabs a hold of you, then you will begin to act like who you are from the inside out, not from the outside in.

So we need to stop trying to change behavior and start focusing on identity. You can hide behind behavior, but you can’t hid behind your true identity…